I consider myself a pretty active member of this blogging community. I blog pretty frequently and I even occasionally read others. It is not very often that I feel left out of the loop around here.
In the last few days I’ve heard alot of chatter surrounding a secret group of dastardly xangans who go around stealing smaller xangans lunch money and giving them swirlies in the bathroom. What the hell? How come I wasn’t invited? I want to pick on the peons around here too!
I feel so out of the loop.
Don’t try to tell me I am in this supposed “clique” either. The clique that runs dissenting xangans out of town. The clique that only reccomends “clique approved” content. The clique that secretly pulls the strings around here. I am not down with that clique. Who would my clique even consist of?
TheBigShowatud – So I suppose because we are friends, like as in we’ve hung out in real life on more than one occasion type friends, that makes us cliquish? Trust me guys, Matt has no interest in running shit around here. He has even less interest in rec’ing me most times.
Wherethefishlives – I’m pretty sure Sam doesn’t even like me all that much. Most of the time we comment eachother’s pulses way more than we do eachother’s blogs. And recs are a rarity.
TheTheologiansCafe – Read the comments on my blog about Xangans Getting Paid if you wanna know how much power Dan wields around here. He is just a guy xanga. A pretty cool and smart guy if you pay attention.
Paul Partisan – Look, for those of you who have not figured it out yet, Paul likes to stir the pot. It’s what he does. If he is being an asshat I tell him so. I think he gets wood off of that shit. I have been the victim of his shenanigans at one point or another. You know what I do? I say fuck em’ and I keep it moving.
Here is the truth. Not everyone on xanga is going to get along. Sometimes you find people on here that you just don’t mesh with. Chances are you may not mesh with their friends either. So the fuck what? People seem to have this notion that because I am a bit more popular on here, people kiss my ass, or people never disagree, or always like me. Then there’s the notion that people who don’t like me or disagree with me will be blacklisted or some crazy shit like that.
What the fuck are you people smoking?
Let me tell you about some of my best friends on here. My xanga cousins, Shirlann and TheLoquaciousLady, are two of my favorite people because they always tells me shit straight. They are not afraid to tell me when I am being arrogant, or offensive, or just plain dumb. Yet they always do so in an adult manner.
I am friends with the infamous c_jamaica, despite her early bitching at me. I am not one to block somebody for being a dick to me. I may have had to put her in her place a few times (and she has done the same for me), but we are now cool. She disagrees with me every chance she gets!
My best friend on here, Kalligenia, is still a quiet bystander in all of this BS. She has been here longer than me and always hears me speak of it, but she is always blissfully unaware. You can be friends with someone without being a fucking clique!
Now let me tell you what I do when I see someone just has it out for me. I fucking ignore them. I am not talking about when I get a douchebag comment per se. I find those hilarious for those of you who don’t know. I am talking about when someone is being disagreeable and jerky to the point where there is just no dealing with them….
…Just keep it moving. That’s all you gotta do.
Note: I am of course not talking about when someone is stalking you or something malicious of that nature. Unfortunately some things cannot be just ignored.